Author: Joy Hurt

As the blessing of health is returning to me a little at a time, I’ve spent time thinking more about yesterday’s blog. Here is Part 2 of a possible story of kindness.

When a person has gone a long time without a home, the idea of “belongings” feels foreign. Carry what you can, leave what you must, and learn not to grow attached. Furniture, curtains, and tablecloths are luxuries for other people with keys in their pockets, fridges that hum at night, and a table.

That first night in a new home, James sat at that table in silence. No TV. No noise. Just him, the hum of the heater, and a tabletop supporting a well-used Bible. The air smelled like fresh paint and possibility, but also like distance from everything lost.

The following day, volunteers from a local church dropped by with bags of “necessities”, among them, a tablecloth. “These things are for you,” they said. “Hopefully they’ll help your place feel more like home.”

Carefully unfolding it, the soft green background covered with a white floral design touched his heart. It took a moment before tears started to flow. Somehow, impossibly, it was just like the one his grandmother had.

Long before life unraveled and loss and circumstance knocked him down, Sunday dinners at her house were his safe place. In those days, life felt full, and the original tablecloth was always there. He used to trace the edges while she told stories or scolded him for picking at food. It smelled like clean linen, chicken soup, and love.

He never thought he’d see it again, let alone have a table to cover.

But here it was. Maybe not the exact one—but close enough that memory rushed in like a flood, and for the first time in years, he didn’t feel like a stranger to himself, but like someone who’d come back home.

Slowly spreading it across his table, he smoothed out the wrinkles with reverence. That single act made the empty house feel full. Not with things, but with meaning, dignity, and something like grace.

To some, a tablecloth is just fabric. For James, it was proof he’d not been forgotten but seen as someone worthy of beauty. Healing often begins not with grand gestures, but with quiet ones stitched in kindness, folded in memory, and offered without expectation.

Every time he sits at that table now, he does so with gratitude. For the roof, yes. For the heat, the fridge, and the shower. But mostly, for the tablecloth and how it laid a foundation for something he hadn’t felt in a very long time:

Belonging.

Whether or not this story happened will remain my secret. I can tell you this. A couple was deeply touched in unexpected ways while dropping off a few bags of “necessities”. Sometimes, things happen that way when a simple act of kindness turns into something full of meaning and beauty.

As for me, the days of Kleenex and Mucinex are over and I’m back to my old self.

More tomorrow.

When one is recovering from a virus, the world keeps spinning. Waiting to get better, I decided to write a story about something that may or may not have happened within the last week. We all need to be ready for the unexpected. What would you do if you faced this situation?

In a quiet corner of town, a simple act of compassion turned an empty building into something sacred. A local church, faced with the needs of a homeless man in their community, made the choice to open the doors of a vacant house they owned and allow him to stay for a short time. It wasn’t a grand gesture with press releases or social media fanfare. It was quiet, deliberate, and deeply human.

The little house had been empty for months. Once full of laughter and the everyday sounds of life, it sat shrouded in silence. Church members had been debating how best to use it. While many good ideas swirled through leadership meetings, the question remained. Should it be used for immediate income or for someone in need?

With no working bathroom, before it could be used for anything, it needed fixing. After installing a brand new tub/shower combination, that problem was fixed.

Within days of completion, a believer named James came along. Life had thrown him more than his fair share of storms, and slowly, everything that once made him feel secure unraveled. What he needed wasn’t just a meal or kind words. He needed a door that locked, a roof that held, and a place to breathe.

What could a tiny country church do to help?

So, the church let him in.

This decision was not without risks or questions. How long would he stay? Would it be safe? Was this fair to others in need? But rather than letting uncertainty paralyze them, the members leaned into grace. They drafted a basic agreement for clarity with J and coordinated volunteers to help furnish the space with donated items.

What happened next wasn’t dramatic, but profound. James rested. A few weeks in a stable place gave him time to think again about the future. Eventually, he’d be able to move on to more permanent housing.

And so, you decide. Did this happen or is it the product of way too much Mucinex?

In today’s world, where the scale of homelessness can feel overwhelming, it’s easy to believe that only large systems can bring solutions. But sometimes the most powerful thing is a single unlocked door. Churches, nonprofits, and communities across the country sit on vacant properties while people sleep under bridges. What if this story wasn’t the exception, but the beginning of a new model of radical hospitality?

This story isn’t about a church saving a man. It’s about the sacred intersection of resources and need. It’s about what happens when we look at what we have—not as ours to protect, but as tools to serve.

What unused space in our lives—physical or emotional—could become shelter for someone in need? The next time someone comes to your door, what would you do?

More tomorrow.

In a quiet little town, where neighbors greet each other by name and front doors are often unlocked, the unthinkable happened. Last week, three boys were reported missing under circumstances that the sheriff is now calling a kidnapping.

Happily playing in broad daylight at a local park, three ten-year-old boys disappeared, and what began as an ordinary afternoon quickly became every parent’s nightmare. As law enforcement agencies launched a frantic search, their families united in shock, fear, and grief.

According to local police reports, the children disappeared late afternoon last Tuesday. Within an hour, all three had vanished without a trace. Because of a strange text, family members alerted the sheriff, and the search began.

Within hours, the youngsters were located under the crawl space of a home just feet from our church. The kidnapper convinced them to follow his instructions or they’d be killed. They were beaten and terrorized during their time in captivity by one crazed individual.

The boys were found by locating the last ping of their cellphone. The kidnapper was arrested and the boys taken to a hospital for treatment of their injuries. Thank goodness for technology.

Throughout this ordeal, most of the community wasn’t aware. Other than a police presence in this one small neighborhood, the rest of the residents went on with life as usual.

The next day, the police asked our Pastor to review the church’s surveillance videos. Sure enough, the three boys and their kidnapper were there, walking along the road. The kidnapper hadn’t planned well and had to lift a child over the fence to have him unlock the gate from the inside. From there, he made the children go under the crawl space of the house.

Beneath this story lies a deep and aching question: Why?

Why would someone target three innocent children in such a small, tight-knit community? How can these tragedies by prevented?

This incident serves as a devastating reminder that even the “safest” places aren’t immune to danger. It highlights the importance of community watchfulness, robust child safety measures, and immediate response systems. The case has reignited a difficult but necessary conversation: stranger danger is real, and closer than we think.

For decades, we’ve taught the phrase “stranger danger” in schools, homes, and daycares. But the reality is, children are still vulnerable to manipulative or predatory adults, especially in moments of brief inattention or false trust.

This is not fear mongering. The truth is child predators often look and act ordinary. That goes for ANY predators. Often polite, they can be well-spoken, and sometimes familiar. The idea that danger always “looks dangerous” is a myth that must be broken.

It’s difficult to strike the right tone when talking about threats like this. Empowerment works better than fear. Teach children:

• Never to go anywhere with a stranger
• Not to trust adults who ask them for help
• To scream, run, and find help
• That it’s okay to say no
• To always check in before changing locations

If this tragedy leads to even one child being safer, more aware, more empowered—then these boys’ stories will not be forgotten. Remember, seniors are vulnerable, too. Always be aware of your surroundings.

We’re thankful that the children were found alive and pray for a complete healing.

More tomorrow.

This week, I updated with a brand new computer. Having held on to Windows 10 for as long as possible, I decided it was time to renew and reinvent the way I blog. Monday, the huge box arrived.

This computer is everything I hoped it would be and more. It works faster than I can think. Sleek and beautiful, the monitor glows as it displays gorgeous imagery. All week, I’ve been learning a little of this and a little of that. Having heard so many bad things about Windows 11, I was a little leary to change. I shouldn’t have been, as everything makes sense, so far.

The old computer is still in the kitchen nook wondering where the heck I went. Migrating to the studio for a total reset, the old computer will remain for use on days we need a second space to work.

One of the first things that came up was the decision of which anti-virus software to install. With that handled, the new computer is safe.

I wish it was the same for me.

Another desert virus has attacked. This year has been a bad one here in my little town. Missing Bible study last night, I’ll be resting and healing for the next week’s fun.

As you all know, girls just want to have fun. With plenty of Kleenex in my suitcase, I’ll be off for a week of giggles and fun with besties. HHH has promised to give the seedlings plenty of water and cuddle the puppies until I return.

Whatever you do today, stay well. If you are sick, stay home. If you are well, try to avoid those who are sick. Viruses these days are nothing to mess with. I’ll be back on May 12th with lots to tell.

Today, millions across the United States are observing the National Day of Prayer. This is a time set aside for individuals of all faiths to unite in reflection, gratitude, and hope. Rooted in a long-standing American tradition, the significance of this day extends far beyond ceremonial gestures. It offers a moment for the nation to pause, breathe, and seek guidance, both personally and collectively.

Today, I’ll ignore the external noise of daily life, as well as my own internal clutter. It’s easy to go through the motions while skimming past headlines or seeing dates on the calendar without really noticing them. This day is an invitation to pause, breathe, and turn inward to pray.

In a world that often feels divided, prayer whispered in solitude, chanted in community, or held in silent hope, is a reminder of things that connect us across traditions. You don’t have to believe or pray the same for the act to mean everything. At its core, prayer is about humility, presence, and hope.

For me, prayer isn’t a grand declaration. It’s more of a conversation in quiet moments of requests for clarity where there’s confusion, peace where there’s unrest, and healing where there’s hurt. It’s also a moment for listening—something I’m working on.

Lift up those who are praying for strength to face illness, reconciliation in a fractured relationship, or justice where it’s long been denied. May those who don’t pray, but live filled with compassion, purpose, and service find blessings in their daily lives.

The National Day of Prayer isn’t about religion. It’s about the collective spirit of a people willing to seek, reflect, and hope together. In a time when headlines highlight so much of what separates us, days like this remind me of the threads that quietly bind us. The real power of prayer resides in the posture of our hearts.

Congress officially established the National Day of Prayer in 1952 during a period of post-war uncertainty and cultural shifts. Leaders recognized the power of a nation turning inward, through prayer or silent reflection, to strengthen its spiritual foundation and inspire compassion, community, and ethical leadership. President Truman signed it into law, and in 1988, President Reagan amended the act to set the first Thursday of May as its annual date.

In today’s fast-paced world, days like these are a reminder that stillness has power. Whether approaching prayer as communion with God, as spiritual contemplation, or as a meditative pause, the National Day of Prayer calls each of us to connect with something deeper than our daily routines.

On this National Day of Prayer, whether you’re lifting a quiet petition or participating in a community gathering, take a moment to reflect not just on your journey, but on the shared story of us all. In listening, asking, and hoping, find peace.

It all started with a rustle. Just a little rustle in the garden, the kind you ignore because maybe it’s the wind. But this rustle had attitude. This rustle meant business. This rustle had a bushy tail and zero respect for property boundaries. I promised I would update you when I had news and boy do I have great news! The squirrel is gone!

This rodent wasn’t your run-of-the-mill nut collector. He an alpha backyard marauder—territorial, aggressive, and possibly hopped up on fermented birdseed. He dug holes like he was planning a subway system, ate seedlings like candy.

As you all know, I did what any rational adult would do: I declared war

HHH and I gathered our first line of defense. Deadly gopher pellets.

We sprinkled them like seasoning a gourmet squirrel salad. The directions said something vague like “Apply liberally to active burrows,” which, in this case, was anywhere within a three-mile radius. I imagined this creature sniffing the stuff, coughing, and dramatically packing his bags like, “Well fine, I see how it is.”

Nope.

Instead, he doubled down and made more frequent appearances.

And so, the challenge was on. Something was going down, and it wouldn’t be the petunias.

We went full action movie villains and bought gopher gas bombs—little chemical canisters that you light and shove into a burrow like a suburban depth charge. The instructions came with warnings like “Do not breathe,” and “Do not ignite near house.”

HHH lit the fuse, shoved it in the burrow, and waited like a patient assassin. And then… nothing. Not a whimper. Not a cough. Not even smoke. Nothing at all. And, worse than that, the destructive visits continued.

Broken, beaten, and deep into rodent warfare, we finally turned to technology. When cleaning out the shed, I found a solar-powered vibrating stake that claimed to “repel underground pests through pulses and vibrations.”

I was skeptical. Mostly because this squirrel didn’t live underground—he lived in my soul at this point. But desperate times called for desperate measures. I deployed this little device and then forgot about it.

The very next day, HHH brought out the gun and we were ready. This squirrel would enjoy his last visit to Winterpast. That’s all there was to it. It was going to die at the hands of My Mysterious Marine.

And this time… something changed.

The squirrel moved out.

At first, HHH waited by the back door with the pellet gun. One shot and the ordeal would be over. But, the squirrel never reappeared. Just like that, his hole is as empty as the flower garden.

Gone. Just like that. One day he was shimmying up our bird feeder pole, and the next, vanished like a tax return in April. Did the vibrations work? Did he finally get bored? Did he move to the neighbor’s yard with better seedlings?

A friend inquired about our seedlings the other day and I mentioned the problem with the squirrel.

“Ohhh, my dad just told me about a device that puts vibrations in the ground. Works swell. His squirrels moved out. Have you heard of it?”

Well, at least now we have a better idea of why he left.

I still wake up sometimes in a cold sweat, swearing I heard a chitter outside. But for now, peace reigns in the backyard. The new seedlings are sprouting. The lawn is healing. As for HHH and me? We’ve learned that sometimes it takes a little sun-powered passive aggression to win a war.

Stay vigilant, fellow gardeners. And never underestimate squirrels.

PS–

Not so fast. Another sighting has been confirmed within the last few minutes. The war continues. Stay tuned.

Spring and summer barbequing happen often here at Winterpast. HHH creates the most wonderful steaks and ribs, making it seem like they cooked themselves. That was until his Traeger started screaming like a banshee every time it was turned on. The squealing was so loud, he decided he’d put BBQing on hold for a while. Well, spring has sprung, and that time has arrived. Last week, it needed fixing.

All we needed was a troubleshooting guide and YouTube.It’s amazing how many quick repairs can be found online. With a video and troubleshooting options, we were ready to fix the Banshee Barbecue using the power of the Internet, some grease, and a screwdriver.

First, we needed to identify which of the two fans were squealing. Unhooking the first one, the squeal continued. But, when the second was unhooked ear-piercing noise stopped. Without cuts, or electrocutions, we’d located the problem.

Everything was just as the YouTube repairman had instructed after we had entered “How do I fix squealing Traeger”. Thank goodness it was the $20 fix instead of the $420 fix. We were careful to choose the on-line repairman that was easiest to follow.

On YouTube, we’ve found answers to beekeeping questions, advice on how to care for engorged teats after weaning a litter of puppies, and how to open the hood of a Ram Truck. The last one was necessary when I first became widowed and didn’t yet realize the true value of YouTube.

After watching the entire video, we searched for the necessary tools.

HHH needed the following:

• A screwdriver
• WD-40 or silicone lubricant
• A clean rag
• A vacuum

Once everything was unplugged, he followed the instructions on the video like a pro. In no time at all, everything was back in place. Reassembled and running, the fan sounded like a gentle breeze rather than a tortured squirrel. A thorough cleaning and a little grease fixed the problem..

There is nothing more tantalizing than a man who can fix anything! HHH, you are my hero!! Can’t wait to enjoy a season of your delicious BBQ’d meals.

Now, let’s find a video to fix the next thing on our list!!

This spring, I did what every optimistic gardener does: I planted hope in the form of tender, innocent seedlings. With careful precision, I arranged rows of Black-Eyed Susan’s, Purple Cone Flowers, Lupine, and Shasta Daisies, each one a promise of cut flowers and happy blogs. This took the better part of a day two weeks ago. The gardens looked stellar.

And then… the squirrel moved in. Disaster came with tiny little teeth that mowed down my hopes and dreams. All that remained of the Zebrina were tiny little stems. As for the Yarrow, they were plucked from the ground with no sign that they The Aster’s survived, but only remain because they were planted in higher boxes.

You’d think he’d show up in polite, bushy-tailed fashion and nibble respectfully, taking one bite and moving along. No. He wasn’t an average squirrel, but a hardened, seasoned, flower-pillaging marauder who recognized our garden as an all-you-can-eat buffet. If it had thumbs, it would have given it a 5-star review with several enthusiastic tail flicks for good measure.

Teasing us from a variety of mysterious holes, he never buried any acorns. He simply flamed the grudge I have against him. Ready to give up and have a flower-less yard, HHH shamed me a bit. Was I going to let a little rodent win this war??? Was I that weak??? Where was my fighting spirit? All excellent questions that renewed my quest for success.

So far, we’ve invested alot in this years floral crop. There are the heirloom seeds, because no one wants genetically modified anything. Organic fertilizer to boost bloom production. Mulch of the highest quality. Peat pots, specially sprouting soil, and hours and hours of love to get these babies to grow under new lights necessary to grow fabulous plants.

After THE incident, one more expense nearly gutted me. A trip west to replace all the flowers on their way to blooming. There’s a direct relationship between filling the back of an SUV and an empty wallet.

One thing that can’t be replaced is the stretched and aching muscles used during one afternoon of seedling planting. Gardening, in theory, is good exercise. In reality, it’s a series of yoga poses invented by a sadist. I performed the “downward dig,” the “wheelbarrow shuffle,” and my personal favorite, “accidental knee-in-mulch scream.” By Sunday evening, I was the one with the heating pad. That day had been so happy and relaxing, with a dedicated bed for each type of flower. When finished, it was a thing of beauty, even if I’d need a few days to recover.

And for what? For a squirrel to treat my plot like a Vegas buffet and leave behind nothing but tiny footprints and tiny little stems.

Gardening books don’t cover this. They talk about “pest control” like it’s a minor inconvenience. This is not a pest. This is war. When there is a war, the warrior must have a gun. We have two. That squirrel is going down. Don’t worry. I’ll dedicate a blog to him when he’s gone.

Please, just try to humor me by agreeing with a few key points.

1. Squirrels are not cute. They are agents of chaos in adorable fur coats. Don’t be fooled.
2. Gardening is not alway relaxing. It’s a tragic comedy in three acts: Hope, Devastation, Replanting.
3. Flowers are necessary for a happy life. Therefore, we will absolutely do this again next year.

Why?

Because maybe, just maybe, this time we’ll outsmart the squirrel and there won’t be another. Hope is the first seed you plant, and stubbornness is the compost that helps it grow.

More tomorrow.

Oliver and Wookie are just plain cute, which is a really good thing because they are a handful. A color-coordinated set, they stay on “high alert” most of the time. Of course, they rarely jump over the couch anymore, so maybe they’ve slowed down a tiny bit. They’re majestic little gremlins with fur. What most people don’t know is that our adorable duo doesn’t just steal hearts—they also rob bank accounts with the enthusiasm of two fuzzy Bonnie and Clydes.

In the beginning, high-maintenance Oliver lived with me, and high-maintenance Wookie lived with HHH. These dogs helped us through some very lonely times as we grieved. They were the best cuddlers and listeners we could’ve asked for. Oliver was loyal to the max unless he was on a toad hunt or eating the sprinklers and plastic solar lighting.

Wookie did her best to make HHH smile while she did the same. Yes. Wookie smiles at the right times and with purpose. In doing so, she makes the world a better place. She also races around the yard in a state of pure elation while Oliver barks at her heels. The two were meant for each other, just like their doggie parents.

Neither HHH nor I meant to own a high-maintenance dog. We both started with our own little furball. Marriage blended our families, and apparently, we enjoy chaos as we managed to double it.

Now we live with a small circus act that requires gourmet kibble, monthly spa appointments, and emotional support at frequent visits to puppy camp that make us both look like their pets.

Don’t forget dog food. These two have preferences. One refuses to eat unless she feels like it. The other eats so quickly, we use a puzzle bowl to keep him from throwing up after dinner. Combine the cost of kibble, fresh cheese, greenies, and other snacks, and it adds up.

They both have coats that grow faster than the weeds at Winterpast. So it’s off to the groomer every eight weeks, where appointments cost about $80/dog. They come back smelling like lavender angels… for approximately 3 hours before one of them rolls in the yard like a freshly shaved heathen.

They see the vet more than I see my doctor. One has dental issues. The other was neutered last year. “Would you like pain meds for Wookie? That will be $20 a pill, please.” Between check-ups and vaccines we basically fund a wing of the vet clinic.

Toys that are destroyed in under 4 minutes? Check. Don’t forget puppy camp. Going on vacation? Ollie and Wookie prefer their five-star staycations with their best friend Michelle.

Despite the hair on our clothes, the cheese disappearing from the fridge, and the never-ending doggy drama, these two high-maintenance weirdos are our little loves. They make us laugh daily, force us outside when we’d rather wallow, and greet us like rockstars even when just returning from the mailbox.

They’ve emptied the bank account, yes—but they’ve filled our lives in a way no amount of money could. (Although if either of them ever wants to get a job, I’m open to it.)

So to anyone considering one—or two—high-maintenance dogs: be prepared. You’re not just getting pets. You’re getting two furry dependents with emotional baggage and the life style of spoiled celebrities. In exchange, you’ll get unconditional love, warm noses on cold nights, and a life that’s messier, louder, and infinitely more joyful.

Just start a savings account first……

My first week at Winterpast was like stepping onto a stage where everyone already knew the script. I arrived late on stage, flipping pages to find my place. Names were familiar to everyone but me, landmarks had stories I didn’t know, and the rhythm to life that took time to learn. All of that took a back seat during my first year of grief.

During the COVID quarantine, I needed to fit in somewhere. This was hard to do when all doors were shut tight while faces were hidden behind masks.

Fitting in didn’t mean changing who I was—it meant allowing myself to take root in new soil. The problem was that I’d become someone totally different, transplanted in an unfamiliar environment. Like in any garden, that took time, patience, spring rains, and a lot of sunshine.

In our small town, presence matters more than polish, and that was a blessing. People wanted to see if I’d show up, whether for Bible study or Sunday morning service. It was never about standing out but more about standing beside. Everything was strange. Slowly, every smile and handshake became a thread in beautiful new tapestry called “HOME”. Things would have turned out differently without God.

Small towns are rich in stories, and old-time residents keep them alive. Sitting at the café or lingering at the hardware store, I listened. I asked questions not just to be polite, but to understand. There’s a kind of unspoken respect in letting others tell you who they are before you introduce yourself. Slowly, I found the answers needed to survive and thrive.

In a place where everyone knows everyone, there was no room for pretending. The upside? I wasn’t expected to be anything more than who I was. Authenticity carries weight. Over time, people stopped seeing that “new person” and started seeing the new neighbor, the woman who helped at the Holiday food drive, or the gal who always waves from her Jeep.

One of the fastest ways to fit in was to contribute. Our small church relies on volunteers and neighborly help more than formal systems. Whether stacking chairs, bringing soup to a sick neighbor, or helping someone find their lost dog, those quiet acts echo loudly in tight-knit communities.

There’s a myth that small towns are either instantly warm or permanently closed off. The truth lives somewhere in between. Trust is a slow-growing vine, and fitting in can take months, even years. But when it happens, it’s real. Not transactional or temporary, but lasting—like the way someone leaves a porch light on for you when they know you’re coming home late.

Fitting in isn’t about erasing your edges to match a mold. It’s about learning the contours of the community and finding where your shape naturally fits. Small town people don’t ask for perfection—they ask for presence, patience, and a willingness to be known.

Now, when someone calls me by name at Walmart or stops by to say “Hi” on a Sunday afternoon—I know: I’m not just living here anymore. I’m a Nevadan.