Author: Joy Hurt

People spend fortunes searching for beauty while ignoring the quiet wonder surrounding them every single day. We board airplanes. We cross oceans. We stand in awe before glaciers, feel the mist of a tropical rainforest or breathtaking waterfall, while ignoring the beauty in places we already call home.

At first glance, the high desert plains of Northwestern Nevada might seem to be a vast expanse of nothing to some. Especially after returning from someplace like Vancouver, where rain falls endlessly, and everything glows green beneath soft gray skies. At Winterpast, we receive around five inches of precipitation in a year. Brown hills stretch beneath endless blue skies. Sagebrush bends beneath the zephyr winds. To some eyes, this land appears empty.

And yet, beauty lives here too.

During the last three years, HHH and I have been blessed to travel to extraordinary places. We enjoyed breakfast while cruising through Glacier National Park. We explored the wild beauty surrounding Icy Strait Point. We watched the world unfold in ways that felt almost too beautiful to be real. Travel changes you. It reminds you how vast and remarkable this planet truly is.

But returning home, beauty quietly unfolds at our own back door.

Only miles from here lies one of the darkest skies on the planet. On a moonless night, the heavens spill open across the Nevada sky in ways most people will never experience. Have we gone out to experience it? Not yet. Shame on us.

The Eastern Sierra Nevadas rise like guardians over the desert plains. Doves nest inside the Japanese maple at Winterpast. Finches splash in the fountains on our warm afternoons. Wind moves through sagebrush with its own ancient language. Train whistles drift across town at night, lonely and familiar all at once.

These things are woven so tightly into daily life that they almost disappear.

Familiarity is strange that way. The extraordinary slowly becomes ordinary simply because we see it every day.

Perhaps that’s why people spend so much time searching for paradise. We begin to believe beauty requires distance. A passport. A cruise ship. A famous destination printed on a brochure.

The truth is, paradise has never depended upon geography. True paradise is simply learning to notice your own life.

Here, it lives in the scent of sage after rain. In the sound of doves cooing at dawn. In the blue Nevada sky, stretching forever above the desert. In the comfort of familiar winds rushing by while standing in your own yard. The world is full of beautiful places.

Journeying on, I’ll hold this important truth close.

Paradise doesn’t always require a passport.

More tomorrow.

Memorial Day is here, draped in flags, parades, and the solemn beauty of remembrance. Our town is home to the Northern Nevada Veterans’ Memorial Cemetery. Each year, hundreds of volunteers arrive on the Saturday before Memorial Day to place a flag at the grave of each soldier. More than 10,000 are laid to rest. HHH and I were two of them.

As we honored those who never came home, HHH softly said their names. We placed a flag and a red carnation above the grave marker and paused for a moment of gratitude before going on to the next. In a few short hours, all flags were in place. Each year, the number grows, as does the number of volunteers taking time to help.

But there are those soldiers who did come home. At least physically. And for many of those, the ghosts of war often returned with them, haunting them for the rest of their lives.

Young men and women left for distant lands carrying the full weight of duty on their shoulders. Most boarded planes and ships, believing deeply in protecting fellow troops, serving their country, and defending America’s honor. They were trained to survive, react, and remain alert long after exhaustion set in. The warrior switch was flipped on.

Throughout their tour duty, they longed for the day they’d return home, expecting life to resume where it had paused.

But coming home after any long absence can be tricky.

While the soldier stood center stage in another world, the play at home continued without them. Friendships shifted. Children grew older. Marriages strained or quietly disappeared. Parents aged. Neighborhoods changed. The familiar suddenly felt unfamiliar, and the script no longer matched the one they carried in their minds.

Perhaps hardest of all was that they weren’t taught how to stop being warriors.

The human mind is not a machine with a simple off switch. Hypervigilance, fear, grief, guilt, survival instincts, memories too terrible to explain — these things don’t vanish neatly once a uniform is folded and placed in a drawer. Some veterans spend decades trying to quiet battles no one else can see.

Our country carries a heartbreaking number of broken soldiers.

Sometimes we pass them without noticing. Sometimes we do notice them standing on street corners in cities across America, carrying backpacks instead of rifles, eyes distant and exhausted, still searching for solid ground beneath their feet. Haunted. Vexed. Unsure how to move forward in a world that keeps spinning while part of them remains trapped somewhere far away.

Not every wound bleeds openly.

This Memorial Day, honor not only those who died in service to our country, but also the living who still walk with what they saw.

Some gave their life in a single moment, while others continue to give pieces of their lives slowly over decades.

For some, the war never completely ends.

For those brave heroes and their families, send prayers for comfort and peace. Remember the sacrifices made so we can enjoy the freedoms we have.

Puppy Camp: A Very Important Discussion

Oliver: Are we going?

Tanner: We’re going.

Oliver: You’re sure?

Tanner: I heard the word “Puppy Camp.” That means we’re going.

Oliver: Puppy Camp sounds… promising.

Tanner: Puppy Camp sounds like friends.

Oliver: I like friends.

Tanner: You tolerate friends.

Oliver: I choose my friends carefully.

Tanner: You run at them full speed.

Oliver: That’s how I introduce myself.

Tanner: What do you think we should take?

Oliver: Everything.

Tanner: We can’t take everything.

Oliver: Then we take the important things.

Tanner: Like what?

Oliver: Snacks.

Tanner: Mom packed snacks.

Oliver: What kind of snacks?

Tanner: I saw the suitcase.

Oliver: You saw the suitcase?

Tanner: Mom’s hiding them in the room with the closed door.

Oliver: The closed door?

Tanner: The one we’re not allowed in.

Oliver: That’s suspicious.

Tanner: They’re in there for sure.

Oliver: Then we’re fine.

Oliver: Was it the afternoon Greenies?

Tanner: I think so.

Oliver: What about the chewy things?

Tanner: The ones we only get when we go away?

Oliver: Those.

Tanner: I’m pretty sure those are in there.

Oliver: Then we are definitely fine.

Oliver: Did you pack the bones?

Tanner: I thought you packed the bones.

Oliver: I was supervising.

Tanner: That means no one packed the bones.

Oliver: This is a problem.

Tanner: Maybe they have bones there.

(pause)

Oliver: They better have bones there.

Tanner: Should we take our beds?

Oliver: Absolutely.

(pause)

Tanner: Wait…

Oliver: What?

Tanner: Remember last time?

Oliver: …( Extremely long processing time for this one)

Tanner: Their beds are way better.

Oliver: Much better.

Tanner: Softer.

Oliver: Bigger.

Tanner: Warmer.

Oliver: We are not taking our beds.

Tanner: Do you think they’ll tell us bedtime stories?

Oliver: They told us bedtime stories last time.

Tanner: I liked that.

Oliver: I pretended not to like that.

Tanner: You fell asleep first.

Oliver: I was resting my eyes.

Tanner: I think this is going to be fun.

Oliver: I think this is going to be very fun.

Tanner: New friends.

Oliver: New snacks.

Tanner: New smells.

Oliver: So many smells.

Oliver: That’s Mom.

Tanner: And Dad.

Oliver: It’s time.

Tanner: Come on.

Oliver: Let’s go.

Tanner: We can’t miss out on the fun.

Oliver: Not a chance. We ARE the fun!!

🌿 From Winterpast

Oliver and Tanner are off to Puppy Camp today—an adventure filled with friends, stories, and (we hope) excellent snacks.

As for me, HHH and I will be stepping away for a short vacation and will return on May 25th.

Until then, enjoy your days—whether they’re filled with quiet, writing, or a little Puppy Camp of your own.

Packing, it turns out, isn’t just about deciding what to bring. It is about deciding who you will be for a little while. Creating the version of you that fits into a suitcase, walking lightly through days that are not yet written. Prepared, but not overly so.

Standing in the quiet of the room, I’ve collected my things on the bed. Not piles, exactly. More like small intentions. A soft sweater for cool mornings. A dress that feels like ease. And then, the shoes. Always the shoes.

I pause there longer than I should, because shoes carry more than outfits—they carry possibility. And every time, I reach for the black pumps. Reliable. Graceful. The one pair that seems to understand the assignment without needing explanation. Black pumps go with everything. They’re, perhaps, the only item that truly lives a double life—equally at home with denim or something finer, ready for whatever the day quietly asks. If there is such a thing as wisdom in a wardrobe, it might just be found in a simple pair of black shoes.

Then come the smaller things, the ones that don’t take much space but somehow hold the most weight. A necklace from HHH, resting lightly in my palm before it’s safely tucked away. I can already feel the comfort of it, the way it will sit against my skin like a quiet reminder of home. Crystal bangles from my mom—each one catching the light while carrying a history I don’t fully understand. And the beautiful hair adornments from Auntie Tj, delicate and just a little playful, as if she is reminding me not to take any of this too seriously.

These are the things that matter. Not the number of outfits or the careful folding, but the way each piece tells a story. The way they travel with me, not as objects, but as echoes of the people who have shaped this life.

By the time the suitcase closes, it feels less like I have packed for a trip and more like I have gathered a small, steady version of myself—one that can move forward, step by step, carrying love in the simplest of ways.

Just hours away, we’ll be on our way to another adventure. A little air. A little sea. Good food. New friends. Life at it’s most fun. Thank goodness we have good luggage, shoes, and attitudes for the journey ahead.

Thanks for spending time with me here at Winterpast. If you enjoy today’s post, there are many more posts in the archieve. Thank you for reading!

There are days at Winterpast that ask very little of me.

No wind demanding attention. No irrigation line bursting open. No squirrel declaring war on the garden. Just stillness. The kind that settles gently over everything and invites you to stay awhile.

Saturday was one of those days.

HHH had gone to play golf with his brothers—an outing filled with laughter, stories retold, and the easy rhythm of time spent together. I could picture it without being there. Men walking fairways, talking about everything and nothing, enjoying a day that didn’t need to be anything more than what it was.

And here, at home, I had something just as important to do.

I sat down to write.

The house was quiet in that particular way that only happens when you are alone but not lonely. Oliver and Tanner found their spots nearby, close enough to keep watch, far enough to stay out of trouble—for the moment.

Outside, the desert held its breath.

Inside, words began to move.

Not all at once. Not in a rush. Just slowly, like water finding its way across stone. A sentence here. A thought there. A memory stepping forward, asking to be noticed.

This is the kind of writing I love most.

Not forced. Not chased.

Just… found.

There is something sacred about a quiet day like this. No deadlines pressing. No expectations to meet. Just time. Time to listen. Time to remember. Time to shape something that didn’t exist when the day began.

By afternoon, the light shifted across the room, stretching long and golden. I realized I had been sitting there for hours, completely unaware of the clock.

That’s how you know it’s a good day.

Not because something grand happened.

But because something real did.

The words came.

And for me—

that’s always enough.

There are systems at Winterpast that no one ever fully explained to me as a new homeowner. After six years, we are still learning about them. They simply sit there, waiting quietly through the winter months, until the day they’re turned on and everything begins to speak at once.

Monday was that day.

We began our mission knowing just enough to be dangerous but not nearly enough to feel confident. The first box—what we’ve come to call the garage box—holds eight stations. Eight. Which sounds manageable until you realize each one carries its own mystery.

Stations one and two water the back lawn. Those we understand.

Three and four belong to the old front lawn—the one that no longer exists. Those remain off, quiet reminders of something that used to be.

Five… well, five introduced itself rather dramatically. A full gusher, with nothing attached. Water bubbling up as if it’d been waiting all winter for its moment. That one required immediate attention—and a bit of colorful language. It will remain off for the foreseeable future.

Six waters the handcrafted redwood flower boxes. All but one, of course. There is always one that refuses to follow the rules.

Seven waters the bed beneath the dove. The Japanese maple above her stands stripped bare from the late frost, its branches thin and exposed, offering no shade, no cover—yet still she sits. One egg beneath her, with no complaint or movement. Just staying.

And eight… eight does a little bit of everything. The mound, two trees, the sunflowers, the side trees, and one mysterious box out front that we will no doubt come to understand better in time.

Or not.

The second system is smaller, but no less opinionated. Three parts. One tends the vegetable garden, the flowers, and the front trees and bushes. Another works inside the yard. The last circles the outer rim of Winterpast, holding the edges together in its own quiet way.

We turned the water on and waited.

It did not take long.

A leak here. A split line there. Then another gusher—this one less dramatic, but equally determined to make its presence known. We stepped over hoses, turned valves, shut things down, and turned them back on again. Adjusting. Watching. Listening.

It turns out water has a language, and at Winterpast, we are just beginning to understand it.

Today, without too much argument, most of the sprinklers on the garage box are working again. Not perfectly. Not completely. But enough to feel like progress had been made and to believe that, with time, this maze will make sense.

Everything will now be on a schedule.

Or at least, that’s the plan.

Above it all, the dove remains. Still. Steady. Watching our chaos without joining it. The dogs, in a rare moment of agreement, have decided to let her be. A small mercy in a world where not everything is gentle.

Not everything, of course.

We did suffer another squirrel attack.

Gone are the baby basil and thyme. Ripped clean from the ground, as if they had never been planted at all. The war continues, as it always does out here. Quiet battles fought at dawn and dusk, victories rarely ours.

My whimsical brain can’t help but wonder what the vermin cooked for his dinner last night.

And still… we go on.

Little by little, the water is following its paths.

And little by little, so are we.

Thank you for visiting me today. Please come back Monday for more fantastical stories from Winterpast.

There are days at Winterpast when everything asks for your attention at once. Tuesday was one of those days.

Up in the Japanese maple, tucked into a cradle of thin, patient branches, a dove has been sitting. Two eggs beneath her. No fuss, no sound—just the quiet, stubborn work of staying. Every time we passed beneath her tree, she watched. Not curious. Not calm. Measuring. And yesterday, we gave her reason to.

HHH and I set out to wake the irrigation system. Half an acre of plastic tubing stretched across the land like a puzzle no one quite remembers solving, lines running here and doubling back there. We turned on the water and waited, and almost immediately the yard answered back.

A leak here, a split line there, and then, without warning, a full gusher—water shooting up where it had no business being. “Oy vey” became the language of the afternoon as we stepped over hoses, crouched, adjusted, shut things off, turned them on again, and tried to bring order to something that seemed determined to resist it.

Above us, she held. Longer than I expected, honestly. But even quiet strength has its limit. At some point with no signal or warning, she broke. Wings sudden against the still air, a rush of motion where there had only been stillness.

And right on cue, the resident idiots sprang into action.

Tanner and Oliver, united at last in a shared and noble cause: chaos. Charging with full conviction and no understanding of what they were doing, they barked, scattering what little peace remained in the yard. The dove veered hard, gaining sky, leaving behind the small, fragile center of her world.

And then… nothing. The nest sat empty.

It’s a strange thing, how quickly two tiny eggs can begin to matter. We didn’t say much, HHH and I, but we both kept looking up. Not constantly. Just enough to know we were both thinking the same thing. Maybe that was it. Maybe she wouldn’t come back.

Time stretched out longer than it probably was. The yard grew quieter. Even the water seemed to settle into a kind of waiting.

And then—she returned.

Not in a rush or panic. She came back the way she had left, on her own terms. One careful movement, then another, folding herself down over those two small promises as if nothing had happened… and everything had. No announcement. No correction. Just presence. Below her, life carried on in its usual, imperfect way.

Later that evening, Oliver lost his supper. Not outside, where such things belong, but directly on the rug by the back door. A consequence from something he ate earlier in the day. Whether it was his karma or ours remains open for discussion.

Up in the tree, she stays.

This morning, that feels like the only thing that matters.

If you’d like to follow along, come back tomorrow. The sprinklers aren’t finished with us yet… and I suspect neither is she.

There is something about Wednesday mornings that feels softer than the rest.

Maybe it’s the rhythm of the week settling in, or the way the light comes through the window just a little differently. At Winterpast, our mornings always begin the same way with a warm cup in hand, the quiet hum of the house waking up, and a conversation that doesn’t need to rush.

Coffee tastes different when it’s shared. Not because of what’s in the cup, but because of who is sharing it with you. Even if HHH is enjoying his morning fix of funny internet reels while I blog and handle bookkeeping, little conversations along the way keep us connected.

Checking in on the quality of last night’s sleep. Comments on the ever-present news in the background. Chuckles about the commuters that are stuck in traffic near TRIC (Tahoe Reno Industrial Complex). Connections over coffee are the best.

Late-life love carries a sweetness that is hard to explain unless you’ve lived it. It isn’t the breathless kind of love that fills a room with Cupid’s arrows. It’s quieter than that. Deeper. It arrives with history in its pockets and wisdom in its step. It understands loss, lessons, and what truly matters.

There is no need to impress.

No need to pretend.

No need to rush toward anything.

Instead, there is space.

Space to speak honestly and listen without fixing. Space to sit in silence and know that nothing more is required.

The conversations themselves are different, too. They wander, sometimes doubling back, drifting from memories to laughter to small observations about the world just outside the window. One minute it’s a story from long ago, the next it’s a shared smile over something as simple as the way the dogs are snoozing after their 5 am breakfast.

Those are the conversations that matter most. Not the big, planned discussions about life’s direction. Not the difficult decisions. But the small, unguarded exchanges that say, “I see you. I’m here, and we’re still walking this road together.”

There is a tenderness in late-life marriages that feels earned. It comes from knowing that time is not endless, and that every ordinary moment carries a little more weight, a little more meaning. It shows up in the way a cup is refilled without being asked, or in how one reaches for the other’s hand without thinking. It lives in laughter that comes easily, and in the quiet understanding that settles just as naturally.

At this stage of life, love is less about building something new and more about appreciating what is right in front of you. It’s about choosing each other again and again, not out of need, but out of knowing what life can take and what it can give back.

Each morning, we choose to sit down together anyway, with a warm cup between us, and talk about all of it… or nothing at all. In the end, it isn’t the coffee that lingers. It’s love’s conversation and the quiet, steady presence of someone who has found their way to your table, just when you needed them most.

Yesterday, the wind came early to Winterpast.

Not in a hurry, not in a fury—just enough to move things along, carrying what needed carrying. Out here, the wind doesn’t just pass through. It gathers, lifts, and remembers. When the weather settles into that just-right place between night and morning, Winterpast becomes a quiet stage for sound. Not loud or demanding. Just present, if you’re willing to listen.

From somewhere beyond the sage and the fence line, the steady rush of Interstate 80 hums to life. It never truly sleeps, that road. Even in the early hours, it speaks its own language in long, low tones—the hum of tires, whispered in the distance. Every so often, the sharper sigh of truck brakes reminds us that someone, somewhere, is slowing down while the rest of the world keeps moving.

Above it all, jets stitch their way across the sky. Invisible at times, but never silent. Carrying lives from here to there, from one story to another. There’s something about that sound that always feels bigger than the moment. With Top Gun less than 75 miles away, the occasional military helicopter or jet joins them.

Then comes the siren.

Faint. Distant and just a thread of sound, really. Reaching all the same, it’s a reminder that while most of us are still wrapped in blankets and dreams, there are those brave warriors already running toward danger or someone in need. It’s a lonely sound, that siren. But also a brave one.

Closer now, the softer things begin to speak.

The coo of doves, gentle and steady, like a morning prayer offered without words. The unique sound of the quail, rustling around on the lawn. The faint scratch at the door from Oliver and Tanner, patiently hopeful that breakfast is a very real and immediate priority. Life, in its simplest form, asks to be tended.

And then the wind again.

Moving through leaves in different voices. A whisper here. A rustle there. Each tree saying something slightly different, depending on how it’s rooted, how it bends, how it remembers the seasons before this one.

But perhaps the most remarkable sound this morning isn’t a sound at all.

Inside, on the dining room table, nearly 150 seedlings are pushing their way through the soil. You really can’t hear them. But if you sit still enough while letting the rest of the world quiet down just a bit, you can feel the silent insistence. That gentle, determined reaching.

Life, beginning again.

The wind carries so much out here. The noise of the world, but also its meaning, rhythm, and reminders that movement never stops. People are always going somewhere. Help is always on its way. Small lives are quietly becoming something more.

Even on the quietest morning, nothing is ever truly silent.

The winds of Winterpast don’t just pass through, but tell the story of everything that’s alive.

Please come back tomorrow for another story from the high desert plains of Northwestern Nevada.

And so it begins.

The visitors to Winterpast.

Beneath the quiet sign that reads Certified Wildlife Habitat, friends arrive, never quite expecting what waits just beyond the gate. From the outside, it’s only a solid white fence, simple and unassuming, with no hint of what lives within.

They always pause, with just a slight hesitation at the entrance, as if something unseen asks them to slow down before stepping in. And then, the moment the gate opens, their eyes widen… adjusting as they take in the layers of color, movement, and life.

It can’t be seen all at once. Winterpast demands a walk.

Step by step, the beauty reveals itself in flowers stretching toward the sun, the soft rustle of leaves in the desert breeze, and the hum of wings just out of sight. Somewhere in the background, the gentle tinkling of wind chimes carries through the air like a welcome. Water trickles down the fountains. It’s the whole package on 1/2 an acre.

Of course, you can’t become a Certified Wildlife Habitat without a quiet nod of approval from the wildlife themselves.

Recently, a pair of doves decided that our little piece of heaven is the perfect place to begin their family. Tucked gently inside the branches of the Japanese Maple, which still holds on to its fall colors, with just a whisper of spring returning, she sits.

Most of the day, she simply rests there, devoted and still. A few times, we’ve peeked in, only to be met with those intensely beady eyes, offering the most unmistakable look of disapproval. Her mate waits faithfully in a nearby tree, standing watch. When boredom and hunger become too much, a soft cooing begins, and the two quietly trade places. A small, sacred rhythm that’s truly beautiful.

Shhhh. Help keep their secret safe.

By the time the path has been walked, something has shifted in our guests. Not rushing to leave, instead, they linger. They find a chair in a quiet corner and sit for a moment. Conversations soften. Shoulders drop. Time loosens its grip.

And always, in the end, the same words are spoken—sometimes aloud, sometimes only felt:

“I could stay here forever.”

Believe me when I tell you, HHH and I feel the same way.

Winterpast.

Simply magical.

Writing is life… and sometimes, life is a place called Winterpast.

Thank you for spending time here. Please come back tomorrow for more stories of life on the high plains of Northwestern Nevada.