There is something deeply reassuring about men who quietly step forward when help is needed. They didn’t ask for applause or need their names announced. They simply noticed what needs to be done, rolled up their sleeves, and got to work.
On Monday, seven men from our church helped with a large memorial luncheon. While others prepared and served food, these men filled every gap they could find. They collected trash, watched over the food tables, directed traffic, carried things, solved problems, and treated every person who arrived with kindness and respect.
Our traffic director that day currently has no home. But he came to help us and did a great job. Even he showed up to help.
He could have easily decided that he had enough struggles of his own. Instead, he came to serve a grieving family and a church that needed him. He stood outside, directed cars, welcomed people, and became an important part of a beautiful day.
That is what stepping up looks like.
The men of our church have been doing a great deal of that lately. During the last week, they’ve been painting two of our church buildings, carefully applying the base coat and trim. The fresh dark blue trim catches your eye, but what it really reflects is the faithful spirit of the men who painted it. They outdid themselves, while never asking for attention or recognition. They simply saw something that needed doing—and did it well.
These same men have repaired fences damaged by our fierce zephyr winds. They have worked on cars when someone needed help. They have handled electrical problems, maintenance projects, heavy lifting, and unexpected repairs. Nothing seems too difficult for this team of men.
Their strength isn’t measured only by the buildings they paint, the fences they repair, or the cars they get running again. Their strength is also found in the way they care for people. They are kind, dependable, wonderfully manly men who step forward when someone needs help. They bring their humor, their spirit, and their willingness to serve wherever they go.
And while they are helping at church and in the community, they are also supporting the women they love. They are husbands and fiancés who work to make sure their homes are protected, cared for, and supported by their steady presence.
We are fortunate to have them.
Our church is stronger because of them. Our buildings are brighter because of them. Our gatherings run more smoothly because of them. And many people’s burdens have been made lighter because these men were willing to help carry them.
I am especially fortunate because I am married to one of them.
Thank you, HHH, for everything you do at our church and at home. Thank you for serving without needing praise, for helping without being asked, and for bringing strength, laughter, and love into Winterpast every day.
You are truly one in a million.
