Who says fairy tales are just for the young? When two hearts find each other later in life, it’s a beautiful reminder that love can blossom at any stage. This engagement party wasn’t just about rings and roses—it was a celebration of second chances, lifelong dreams, and the joy of saying ‘yes’ when you thought the best chapters had already been written.
Our friends, “The Love Birds”, have been spreading smiles and happiness throughout our dusty little town on the high desert plains of Northwestern Nevada. Just a year ago, their lives were quite different. Both struggling through loss, something was missing. Happiness and the power of hope for the future have changed everything. Their wedding bells will ring in a mega-wedding at our megachurch two days before our own 2nd anniversary.
It’s hard to know what’s appropriate these days. The bottom line is that anything goes. Planning a wedding between two people in their 70s, the script is theirs to write. Our groom had definite feelings tied to traditions from the past. There would be no engagement party. How silly. At THEIR age? Not happening.
On the other hand, Miss Bridge-Girl had different ideas. After the chapter of her past lifetime of marriage ended years ago, she’s ready to start anew. And so, our two brains came together and decided to surprise Mr. Groom!
On Friday at Winterpast there was a flurry of non-stop activity. Every dead bloom was clipped. Paths were raked clean. Tables and chairs were set up on the lawn. The dogs knew something was up, but weren’t sure what. With each change, they sniffed everything to assure we were safe.
By 11:00 am, it was time to pick up the food platters at the local grocery store. HHH and I had combined last-minute errands to maximize efficiency. Along with the food, we needed ice and one bean burrito for a guest with life-threatening nutritional issues. Bean burritos are the perfect plant-based meal for her, and we were happy to comply.
Pulling up to the grocery store, we were so proud of our accomplishments. We’d be ready by 4 pm to enjoy an hour of peace and quiet before the guests arrived. Hand in hand, as we always are on shopping days, we entered the store and ran right into “The Love Birds”. No kidding.
The little lie we had told the groom was this. They were invited to a BBQ at 5:30. How would we explain the food trays we’d be purchasing????? After a full game of cat and mouse, we left the store with our food trays, our secret still safe.
Next, it was on to the nearest Taco Bell. After such a busy morning, a bean burrito sounded good to me, as well. Our order was complete. One burrito WITH cheese and one without for our friend. All went well until I realized, I’d taken a bite from the cheeseless burrito, which was the entire reason for our purchase.
Laughing so hard, HHH turned the car around to go through the line again. The associate was a little confused. Hadn’t we just been through? Through intense laughter, we shook our heads and got the heck out of there with our guest’s dinner.
With maximum secrecy, 28 guests (aged 4 – 92) managed to stay silent and create a major surprise! As the evening unfolded, Mr. Groom had to admit that engagement parties rule. Especially his! Surrounded by their favorite people, the couple led us all through the buffet line. They shared their love story to an adoring crowd. Presents were opened and a beautiful chocolate cake was enjoyed by all.
As the evening progressed, everyone agreed that Winterpast is a botanical delight. Guests picked the few apricots we have this year. By the time the evening ended, new friendships were formed. Everyone agreed that this love affair is sweet, beautiful, and perfect for these two at this time in their lives.
A few of the guests helped clean up the kitchen, while getting in the last little bit of visiting. And, just like that, it was like there had never been a party at all.
Celebrations are wonderful times to deepen friendships. With so many blessings in our lives, we all have reasons to host a party. Whether it’s a coffee date for three or an engagement party for 28, think about hosting a little summer shin-dig.
CHOOSE HAPPINESS!!!!